Following the end of her torrid relationship with Lowe, Gilbert wed actor Bo Brinkman in 1988. The actress described in her memoir that she was infatuated with him after meeting during a group dinner.

She eventually met her first husband, director Bo Brinkman, and the two welcomed their son, Dakota Brinkman, in May 1989.

She eventually met her first husband, director Bo Brinkman, and the two welcomed their son, Dakota Brinkman, in May 1989. After the couple split, Gilbert went on to remarry to her second husband, ...