Could I send an invitation that lists both parties, and let the guests RSVP as to the one they would like to attend?

In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to a party host needing help with invites.

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GENTLE READER: You are asking for a lot of trouble on behalf of people who do not even trouble themselves to answer your ...

It is always a little uncomfortable when friends talk to each other and wonder why one of them was invited on this day and ...